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Asking for help

Signs that you may want to reach out for help and support with your wellbeing could include:

Difficult feelings (4)

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Loneliness
  • Shame

Unhelpful thinking (4)

  • Judging yourself harshly
  • Expecting criticism from others
  • Expecting things to go badly
  • Questioning the point of life

Unhelpful behaviours (4)

  • Stopping doing things you used to enjoy
  • Withdrawing socially
  • Using drugs and alcohol to avoid difficult feelings
  • Self-harming 
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Our specialists’ top tips

Connect to the present moment: It is easy to get lost thinking about the past or future, losing sight of the present.

Ask for help: Asking for help can be difficult, especially if we are experiencing lots of unhelpful thoughts. But remember:

  • It is not a sign of weakness
  • It is the first step towards getting back on track
  • It takes courage to face our fears and make the changes necessary to improve our lives
  • Everyone wants you to succeed and enjoy your time at university. We are always ready and willing to help.

What do our students say?

Attending counselling has been a really valuable experience. I feel far better equipped to cope with the situation going forwards. My counsellor was great and I'm so glad I signed up for the sessions.

Self-care is crucial, because if you are healthy (mentally and physically) only then you’ll be able to fulfil your responsibility and achieve your degree with a healthy mindset.